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Over 40 Lesbian Dating Ireland

40 Lesbian is a friendly corner of the internet for lesbians over 40 all around Ireland, from Cork city to Sligo. Build a free profile, see who's living near you and send a message when the mood takes you. A sea swim, a trad session or a whole new adventure could follow.

Just a few of our member benefits*:

  • Create your free photo profile
  • Find local single lesbians
  • See who's online now
  • See who's viewed your profile
  • And many more...

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How Does 40 Lesbian Work?

We've made our dating website as easy as possible to use. Just follow these simple steps...

  • Step 1

    Join For Free

    Sign up for your free trial dating account using our signup form above.

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    Find Singles Near You

    Use our easy search tool to find single lesbians over 40 by postcode. It's so easy.

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    Send messages to the women that catch your eye and reply to messages sent to you.


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We have many single women over 40 in our database, looking to meet other women, just like you. Just select either your nearest city or your region from the menus below for a preview of our latest members near you.

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What is 40+ Lesbian Dating

How Does Online Lesbian Dating Work Over 40 in Ireland?

There was a time when meeting a woman who liked women meant a knowing nod at a gig, an aunt who kept suspiciously mentioning her friend's daughter or a long night out in town. Grand craic, but hit and miss. Now you can get started from the couch with a cuppa.

On 40 Lesbian you write a few lines about yourself, add a photo or two and let other members see who you are. Whether you're in Limerick, Kilkenny or out in Connemara, you can stay local or look further afield.

Found someone who catches your eye? Send her a message and see what comes back. A climb up Croagh Patrick, a swim at the Forty Foot or a weekend in Dingle could follow. Why not sign up now for free and see who's online near you?

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Why Choose 40 Lesbian?

40 Lesbian is all about women over 40 who love women, so you're meeting women who know their own minds. It's a friendlier option than the busy apps and open to women in every county.

Simplicity

The site works on your phone, tablet or laptop without any fuss. If you get stuck, the support team is only a message away.

Safety Matters

Have a proper chat on the site before giving out your number or address. If something doesn't sit right, tell the support team.

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Lesbian Dating Over 40 in Ireland: Your Questions Answered

Is 40 Lesbian free to join?

Yes. Your profile and photos are free, so you can have a good look around first. When you're ready to get chatting, upgrade to Premium and message the women you'd like to meet.

How do I find lesbians over 40 near me in Ireland?

Our quick search gives you a preview of women near you, whether you're in Meath, Mayo or Tipperary. You can also browse single lesbians over 40, and once you've joined you can search by county.

What should I write in my profile?

Write it like you're telling a new friend about yourself in the snug: what you love, what you're after and what you could talk about for hours. Then add a recent photo.

I've only just come out. Is this site for me?

Of course. Whether you've been out for years or only told your mam last week, you're welcome here. Take things at whatever pace suits you.

How do I stay safe when meeting someone?

Take your time getting to know someone on the site, meet in a public place and let a friend know where you'll be. Never send money to someone you haven't met. The Garda romance scam page explains what to do if you're worried, and in an emergency call 999 or 112.

How do I contact support or close my account?

The support page will look after you.

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